Sorry Sigmond Freud but sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. I don't think Carole King was trying to say, "You can't talk to a man with a dick in his hand." I don't know why people want to assume every song is about sex, it's weird. I'm pretty sure this is one of those songs that's about exactly what the singer is singing about.
Energy buzz mind-full. Not about her vocal quality - all about her intellect energy. She conveyed issues as if it were the easiest way to communicate! Timeless seeds planted in growing minds - she had that power. She wanted us to realise.