I grabbed setlists from the final 2 Sloan shows on Ships & Dip (the ones on the pool deck & in the spinnaker lounge), so I'm sharing. I don't have the setlist for show 1 (in the main theater - they closed the curtain after the show so I couldn't grab one)
All 3 shows were awesome, and they mixed it up every night :) My favorite was probably the third show, they played the song I'd been asking them to play for days (lol) & singing with Chris on Underwhelmed & She Says What She Means was amazing.
Show 1 (Stardust Theater - Feb 1, 2009):
This is totally incomplete and in the wrong order, but here's what I know I heard at show 1. The other 2 shows are accurate, please let me know if you have any corrections/additions for show 1!
The Other Man
The Good In Everyone
Everything You've Done Wrong
I'm Not a Kid Anymore